What is an introvert?

Psychologist Carl Jung was the first to develop this distinction of human personality in the 1960’s. According to him, extroverts and introverts can be characterized by how they interact with the outside world.
If introverts prefer to spend time alone recharging their batteries, extroverts feel best in the company of others.
Introverts are quiet, reserved and attentive people, do not seek attention and do not like to socialize very much, because socializing can make them feel exhausted. On the other hand, extroverts like to interact with others.
However, this does not mean that an introvert will not develop certain elements of extroversion in their personality, and vice versa.
Whether one person is extroverted or an introvert, this does not mean that he is more advantageous than the other, but simply that he is different.

When an introvert is facing a difficult situation or when he has to make an important decision, he spends a lot of time thinking about and analyzing all the issues involved.
Introverts do not feel comfortable talking to people they do not know very well and that is why they prefer to spend more time alone, in silence. Introverts are also more sensitive to criticism and negative feedback, trying to do anything to avoid a conflict.
If an introvert joins a discussion or debate, he or she will most likely choose to express himself or herself in writing and anonymously in order to have time to think about what he or she wants to convey.

Introverts are used to spending more time alone, reflecting and thinking about new ideas, using their imagination. Sharing these thoughts and ideas out loud will not be comfortable for an introvert, which is why he or she chooses to express himself or herself through writing, illustrations, music, or some other form of art.
If a person is introverted, socializing can deplete all of his or her natural energy reserves, which is why he or she may prefer to listen and absorb what is going on around him or her. When working or in a different social context, an introvert prefers to sit in the back. That is why the myth that introverts are shy or socially anxious people stems from this natural tendency to listen and observe quietly. Introverts prefer to have deep conversations with others, to listen and weigh the ideas of others carefully.

People who feel the need to recharge their batteries after a long day sitting quietly are most likely introverts.
This does not necessarily mean that they will always avoid human interaction, but they prefer to have a small circle of friends.
Most likely, an introvert will feel comfortable with a few close friends. Although these people do not make friends easily, they really appreciate lasting friendships.

You can learn more and if you want to find out if you are an introvert or an extrovert by taking our free quizzes.

You can also check out our guidance for introverts page for more info.