How to use the law of attraction to get what you want?

What is the law of attraction?

I am sure you have heard about it, at least once. Maybe you even read the book or watched the movie „The secret”, which made it even more popular.There is no scientific proof that it works, but there are so many success stories and so many personal development experts that use it in their methods, that I think it is worth looking into it.This law suggests that you will get more of what you focus on.If you focus on negative things, on bad things that happen or might happen to you and on what you are missing in your life, it is more likely to experience more of these things. If you focus on the positive, on what you already have in your life, with gratitude and joy, it is more likely to get more of the things you notice and appreciate.

Well… there are a lot of programs and experts that recommend the law of attraction as the one tool that will fix everything in your life. So … starting from this belief, there are a lot of affirmations, meditations and so on, that basically just tell you to “fake it till you make it”. To tell yourself “I am rich”, “I am happy” and so on … you close your eyes and imagine how it feels to be rich, or happy, or fit… or whatever you want to attract in your life. And then, one day…. You will wake up rich, fit, happy or in a perfect relationship.
But do you believe it is that simple?
I think this is a misconception about the law of attraction.I believe in it and I really think that it works. But not like this.Magic thinking is for children, and I think we know better than that.

Everything is energy. And your emotions are energy as well, they vibrate on a certain frequency. So, you attract the things, or experiences or people that are on the same vibration as you are.So, if you are in a state of gratitude, joy, calm on a certain subject, you are more likely to attract more of what you are grateful for.
And this is just because you are ready to notice, to enjoy, to accept all those things in your life. The opportunities, the things, the people that can help you get what you want.But after this, you need to take the necessary actions.If you want money, you think about money with positive energy, you express gratitude for the money you already have in your life, you start to notice all the abundance that surrounds you and the people in your life and then you do the actions you need to do in order to make money. You go to work, you learn a new skill, you start a business, and so on.There is no magic here. You work with your emotions, with the way you feel, but you act as well.You continue doing the things you planned, but with better emotions and more confidence. You get yourself in the state where you know and you feel that you will get the object of your desire, that you deserve it and it will be good for you.

Law of attraction and introversion

Since we introverts tend to spend a lot of time with ourselves, in introspection, if the law of attraction was only about thinking about what we want and magically getting it, our lives would be much easier.
But, as I said, things are not like this. Wishful thinking, alone, does not change your life.But having a positive attitude about things can shape many aspects of your life. This is the growth mindset, of bringing positive thinking, self-confidence and constructive beliefs into your everyday actions.Also, as introverts, we tend to overthink and analyse some negative situations and this might keep our focus too much on what we do not want to have in our lives. So, finding ways to calm down, and unwind at the end of the day is the best way to move the focus where we want it.So, all the advice you will find here about dealing with the challenges of introvert life, will just help you apply the law better, even when you don’t know you are.The law of attraction is not a magic pill, but it can add value to all your efforts. It can ensure the success of your actions, it can accelerate your progress and can help you enjoy your success and accomplishments.If you want to know more and to discuss specifically about how the Law of Attraction can change your life and help you navigate through the challenges of introverts, we have some good news.

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